The Children

Kids are caught in the middle — how do I protect them?

Stop putting them there. They're 'in the middle' because adults are treating them as messengers, allies, or witnesses. Your job: communicate directly ...

What if she wants to move away with the kids?

This is a legal matter requiring immediate attorney involvement. In most jurisdictions, she cannot unilaterally relocate with the children — especiall...

How do I repair if I've already exposed them to too much?

Acknowledge it, apologize appropriately, and change your behavior. Children are remarkably resilient — but only if the harmful behavior stops and repa...