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Why should I trust this when nothing else has worked?

Your skepticism isn't pessimism—it's pattern recognition. You've watched him read books, make promises, maybe even go to counseling, only to watch eve...

What if he's only doing this to keep me from leaving?

Let's be honest: yes, the fear of losing you probably is part of what got him here. And that's not automatically a bad thing. Fear of loss is often th...

Is he just learning to manipulate me better?

This fear makes sense, especially if you've experienced manipulation before. Some programs do teach techniques that can be weaponized—communication 's...

What if I'm the one who's been hurt - why is HE the focus?

Your pain is real, and this question is absolutely fair. You're the one who's been wounded by his behavior, and it can feel backwards—even insulting—t...