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Your Healing Matters Too

6 questions

How do I heal from what's happened?

Your healing isn't a luxury or something that can wait until after he changes. It's essential—for you, for your children if you have them, and ultimat...

Can I forgive before I'm ready?

The short answer is no—and trying to will likely backfire. Premature forgiveness isn't forgiveness at all; it's suppression dressed in spiritual langu...

What if I can't get past it?

The fear that you'll never get past what happened is one of the most common and honest concerns women express. Here's what's important to understand: ...

Is it okay to still love him and be hurt?

Not only is it okay to love him and be hurt simultaneously—this is actually one of the most honest and healthy responses possible. Conflicting emotion...

Do I need my own support?

Yes—and this isn't optional. Your husband's transformation addresses his patterns, his wounds, his identity reconstruction. But you have your own woun...

How do I take care of myself through this?

Taking care of yourself through this season isn't selfish—it's essential for sustainable engagement with an inherently challenging process. Marriage r...