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For Her

You found this site—maybe because he told you about it, maybe because you were searching for answers. Either way, you deserve to understand what he's learning and how this process works. These answers are for you.

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What He's Learning

What does he hear about me in your coaching?Can I talk to you directly about concerns?What is this program actually teaching him?What are the Four Theaters he keeps mentioning?What does real transformation look like vs. temporary change?Why is this approach different from other things we've tried?

Your Healing Matters Too

How do I heal from what's happened?Can I forgive before I'm ready?What if I can't get past it?Is it okay to still love him and be hurt?Do I need my own support?How do I take care of myself through this?

Part 1: What He's Learning

How long does real change actually take?What should I expect during this process?

Part 2: Your Place in This

What's my role in his transformation?How do I support without taking over?

Your Questions Answered

Why should I trust this when nothing else has worked?What if he's only doing this to keep me from leaving?Is he just learning to manipulate me better?What if I'm the one who's been hurt - why is HE the focus?

Part 2: Understanding His Progress

What if I see effort but not results yet?How will I know if it's actually working?What if he's working hard but I still feel unsafe?Should we be doing couples work too?